When Faith Creates Tension

August is often a time for long dinners, family gatherings, and a slower pace of life. But even in the warmth of summer, some conversations can become uncomfortable with disagreements over politics, values, or faith.

Meeting Tension

The Gospel for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time meets us in that tension. Jesus says something that may sound surprising, even harsh: “Do you think that I have come to establish peace on the earth? No, I tell you, but rather division.” (Luke 12:51) But what does Jesus, the Prince of Peace, mean? Peace comes through truth, love, and deep inner transformation. That’s not always comfortable. In fact, Jesus warns that living the Gospel with honesty and conviction may cause division, even within families.

Following Jesus

Many of us know what it’s like to feel misunderstood. Maybe you’ve been the only one to pray before a meal, or the one who speaks up when a joke goes too far, or chooses forgiveness when others choose anger. These choices aren’t always welcome. Jesus isn’t telling us to look for conflict. Following Jesus means accepting a different set of priorities: putting God first, seeking justice, showing mercy, forgiving freely, and loving even when it’s hard. He understands rejection and misunderstanding and walks with us through it.

Living the Gospel

When faith creates tension, we can take a step back and pray for patience. We can listen with an open heart and love, even when it is not returned. And remember, in the words of St. Catherine of Siena, “be what God meant you to be, and you will set the world on fire.” That’s the fire Jesus came to ignite, not one of destruction, but of holy transformation. A fire of truth, mercy, and love. Let’s not be afraid to let that fire burn in us.